This page covers two things: how we handle collaboration requests, and the public resources worth knowing about if something has gone wrong. It exists mostly to say what we will not display, because fake authority is one of the easier ways a site like this could mislead you.
What we will not display
- Badges, seals or certifications we have not earned. Including anything implying government approval, licensing or official registration beyond being an ordinary company.
- Logos of organisations we have no relationship with. “As seen in” rows are trivially easy to fake, and most of the ones you see are.
- Media mentions we cannot point you at. If we ever claim one, there will be a link and you can check it.
- Paid placements presented as editorial. If something is paid for, it will say so.
- Partnerships that have not been agreed in writing by the other party.
There is a reason this list is longer than anything we do claim. A dating site’s trust signals are the easiest part of it to invent, and a reader has no way to check most of them. The only honest response is to not use them.
Proposing a collaboration
We will consider working with organisations whose purpose overlaps with ours, online safety, fraud awareness, digital rights, adult health. Write to the desk and say who you are, what you are proposing, and what each side would be doing.
Things worth knowing before you write: we do not sell guest posts or links, we do not run advertorials dressed as guides, and anything agreed appears on this page with the other party named. We do not announce relationships that do not exist, and we will not be announced as one by somebody else.
Public resources
These are independent Kenyan bodies, listed because they are useful. They are not connected to this site, do not endorse it, and we have no relationship with any of them.
- Office of the Data Protection Commissioner
- The regulator for personal data in Kenya under the Data Protection Act, 2019. This is where to complain if any website, including ours, mishandles your information.
- Communications Authority of Kenya
- The communications regulator, and the home of the national computer incident response team for online fraud and abuse.
- Your mobile money provider
- The first call if you have sent money to someone and believe you were defrauded. Speed matters more here than anywhere else, so contact them before anyone else.
- The police
- For fraud, threats, blackmail, or anything involving a minor. Take your transaction records and screenshots with you; they are what make a report actionable.
Someone claiming to be us
If you find a site, account or person using our name, our logo or our listings without authorisation, please report it. Every channel we use is listed on the contact pageand nothing else is us.