These are the rules for using Hookups For Kenyans. They exist for one reason: adult dating goes wrong in a small number of very predictable ways, and almost all of them start with behaviour we can describe plainly in advance. Read this once and you will recognise trouble before it costs you anything.
This is an adults-only service
Everyone here must be eighteen or older. There is no grey area, no “almost eighteen”, and no exception for someone who says their photograph is old. Any content, message or request involving a minor is reported, removed, and treated as the most serious thing that can happen on this site.
If someone you are speaking to turns out to be under eighteen, stop the conversation immediately and tell us. You will not get into trouble for reporting it. You will get into trouble for continuing.
Be honest about who you are and what you want
The quickest way to a wasted month is a conversation built on two people describing someone they are not. Say your real age range, your real location, your real situation, and the kind of arrangement you are actually looking for. People are far more tolerant of an honest answer they did not want than of a pleasant answer that turns out to be false.
That also means no borrowed photographs, no invented jobs, no pretending to be in the country when you are not, and no claiming a connection to us, to any public figure, or to any organisation that you do not have.
Respect the answer no
Consent is not a formality to get past. An adult may decline you, stop replying, change their mind after agreeing, or end things at any point, and none of that requires an explanation or entitles you to anything.
The following end your access, without argument: continuing to contact someone after being asked to stop; abuse, insults or threats; pressuring anyone into photographs, meetings or anything else; threatening to expose someone’s photographs, messages or private life; and following or turning up where someone has not invited you.
Never send money to someone you have not met
This is the single rule that prevents the most harm, so it is worth stating bluntly. Nobody who is genuinely interested in you needs money before they have met you. Not for transport. Not for a sick relative. Not for a phone that was just stolen. Not to prove you are serious. Not to release a payment that is supposedly on its way to you.
Every one of those is a scriptand the people running it have run it hundreds of times. They are good at it, the story will be plausible, and it will arrive with urgency attached, because urgency is the part that works. If you feel hurried about money, that feeling is the warning.
The same applies in reverse: do not offer money, gifts or support as a way of pressing someone into contact, photographs or a meeting. Arrangements between adults are discussed openly, in person, once there is trust, not dangled beforehand.
Keep private things private
Do not publish anyone’s phone number, address, workplace, identity number, car registration or photographs without their agreement, and do not share screenshots of private conversations. This applies to someone who has upset you as much as to anyone else. If a person has behaved badly, report them to us; do not post their details for other people to act on.
Protect your own information just as carefully. Our safety guide sets out what to hold back and for how long.
Keep the public parts of the site usable
- No sexually explicit descriptions or images in comments. This is a public page that anyone may open.
- No advertising another service, recruiting, or posting the same message repeatedly.
- No posting phone numbers in comments, including your own. It is the fastest way to be targeted by exactly the people this page warns you about.
- No invented reviews or testimonials, for us or for anyone else.
The comment policy explains in detail what happens to a comment that breaks these rules.
What happens when a rule is broken
- A report reaches a person. Every report is read by someone on the desk. There is no automatic filter deciding whether your concern matters.
- We look at what we can see. That means the listing, the comments, the pattern of behaviour, and anything else reported about the same person.
- We act in proportion. That can mean removing a comment, correcting or withdrawing a listing, refusing further dealings, or blocking access entirely.
- Serious matters go further. Anything involving a minor, a credible threat of violence, or organised fraud is removed first and escalated, regardless of who it involves.
We will not tell the person you reported who reported them. If you asked for a reply and gave us a way to reach you, you will get one.
What you can expect from us in return
Rules that only point one way are not worth much, so here is our side. We will not invent verification we do not perform. We will not publish fake testimonials or invented numbers to make the site look busier than it is. We will not sell your information. We will read what you report. And where we are wrong, we will say so and fix it.
Last reviewed on 8 November 2026.