You have other options, and most of them are free. This page sets out what this site does differently, what it deliberately does not claim, and the circumstances in which you would be better off elsewhere. You can decide from that.
What you are choosing between
- Group chats and comment sections
- Free, immediate, and where most of the fraud happens. Numbers are posted in public and harvested, nobody is accountable for anything, and the same advance-fee approaches circulate indefinitely because there is no one to remove them.
- Individual brokers
- A person who promises to connect you for a fee. Some are genuine. The structural problem is that you cannot tell which, there is no published price to check a quote against, and there is nothing to go back to when nothing happens.
- Mainstream dating apps
- Properly built and worth using, but not aimed at this. Arrangements of this kind tend to be against their terms, so conversations get moved off the platform quickly, which puts you back in a private chat with no record.
- This site
- Listings that are maintained rather than abandoned, introductions passed by a named desk, one published price list, comments read before they appear, and a report form that reaches a person. Not free, and not magic.
The four things that actually differ
- Nobody’s number moves without their agreement. There is no button that reveals contact details to a stranger, because that feature is the single most useful tool a scam operation can have.
- One published price list. Everything is on the pricing page. That is not just convenience: it means any other figure quoted to you is immediately recognisable as not ours, which is the part that protects you.
- A person reads every report. Not a filter, not an unattended inbox. And comments are moderated before they appear, which is why the pages are not full of harvested numbers.
- The guidance tells you the uncomfortable parts. Including, repeatedly, that we do not verify anyone, which is not a good sales line but is the thing you most need to know.
Reasons not to use this site
These are real, and you should weigh them.
- You want guaranteed results. Nobody can sell you another adult’s agreement. If that is what you are shopping for, you will only find it from someone lying to you.
- You want verified profiles. We do not run background checks or verify identity documents, and we will not pretend otherwise. No Kenyan site of this kind that claims to is telling the truth about it either, but if verification is your requirement, we do not meet it.
- You want it free. Reading everything here is free, but the desk’s work is not. If you are not prepared to pay for that, browse and use the guides, they cost nothing and the safety guide is the most valuable page on the site.
- You want it immediately. Introductions depend on another person replying. If you need something tonight, this is the wrong process.
What it comes down to
Everything above is a claim about our own conduct, not about other people’s. We cannot make anyone honest, and we have been careful throughout this site not to suggest we can. What we can do is remove the structural features that make fraud easy, publish prices so that a fake one stands out, read what you report, and tell you the truth about the limits. Whether that is worth it to you is a fair question, and the FAQs answer the rest of it.